Conscious spending could help out both camps. Spenders tend to spend too much on things that don't matter to them, and savers spend too little on things that ma

Conscious spending could help out both camps. Spenders tend to spend too much on things that don't matter to them, and savers spend too little on things that matter to them. The problem is conscious spending requires more initial setup that a lot of people don't want to do. They don't want to look at their bills and tally up the monthly total, automating that to be paid first, and then looking at their savings/investing/donation goals and taxes/limitations and dedicating certain amounts next per month. That's all too much initial work for them, but once you're on the other side it's glorious. I see how much is in my spending account, and spend it freely if whatever it is matters to me more than just the thrill of spending. So many are just not honest with themselves and what actually matters to them. They have a huge house not because it makes them happy but because it's what they feel pressured to have. But this is a trick, remaining in this state winds up burning you out so much faster because you are not nourishing what your soul wants. What they actually would rather be doing is travelling the world, and yet they only put aside 1% monthly to a travel fund, and 70% goes to a home they don't care about. They wind up never travelling because they distract themselves with irrelevant things, get burned out at their job, feel like moving cities, etc. It happens all the time! To make this clear, this isn't about downsizing. If a big home does matter to you, that should obviously take a much larger portion of your monthly bills. But you can't make these decisions without going through that above work honestly.