And the problem is that the more closed you become, the more amplified are your experiences which you deem hostile. A member in my family is like this and I tr

And the problem is that the more closed you become, the more amplified are your experiences which you deem hostile. A member in my family is like this and I try to leave her alone for the most part, but there are opportunities where I try to remind her that no one is out there to get you. Just do nice/good things for yourself and the rest will present itself.