> Been there, and was luckily able to get out because of no kids. We had 5 (all over 18 now). I got out of it because she started hanging with the nearby homel

> Been there, and was luckily able to get out because of no kids. We had 5 (all over 18 now). I got out of it because she started hanging with the nearby homeless community and found other guys go glom onto. Then one night, while I was asleep on the sofa, she came home and emptied out her bedroom (hoarded to the ceiling). I was one door away and never stirred. I just work up and the room was completely empty. I'm still kind of stunned by that.