> When you realise the girl on the other side has an abundance of men blowing up her phone with first messages, you realise it's hopeless. The reality of onlin

> When you realise the girl on the other side has an abundance of men blowing up her phone with first messages, you realise it's hopeless. The reality of online dating for women is that all you have to do is show up. yes, you will get a TON of messages. You'll have to sort through them. we know this. it's an entirely opposite experience for men. online dating is still geared towards separating them from money. I hope to never have to deal with it again, honestly. it's depressing.