I used to think that way too until I learned from Louis Rossmann that it's basically just blaming the victim (who might not actually have a real choice). For ex

I used to think that way too until I learned from Louis Rossmann that it's basically just blaming the victim (who might not actually have a real choice). For example it might be a rented place, or maybe he's just saying there temporarily. It doesn't help things if we blame others for their poor consumer choices.