What does yourself out there mean? Basically that you have to work it like a job. You need to go out when to don’t feel like it, go do activities that maybe are

What does yourself out there mean? Basically that you have to work it like a job. You need to go out when to don’t feel like it, go do activities that maybe aren’t super interesting but have the right demographic. You also you have to sell yourself. It’s like working a sales position, you need to be starting conversations with strangers even though it feels weird, you need to be asking for numbers and following up dating is just another form of work. Read, do research, improve your product and try again, and again and again x1000. Also lower your standards in the beginning. if you are 22 and never been in a relationship you need to start somewhere and that would be with less beautiful women. Then if you keep practicing and building up skills you can date more attractive women.