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I solved this problem with one year of lifting weights and dancing lessons. About 2hr/day 6day/week time commitment. It is not quick or easy, but it is simple
by opwieurposiu 3y ago
I solved this problem with one year of lifting weights and dancing lessons. About 2hr/day 6day/week time commitment. It is not quick or easy, but it is simple and very effective.
When you have muscle, girls on the bus will come sit next to you and chat you up. They forgive you if you speak inelegantly. When you can dance your body language and posture will make people feel at ease. It was a strange experience for me as a nerd. Apps are a waste of time.
- wooque 3y agoNope, there are no simple solutions. I have a friend who goes to gym and salsa lessons and still struggling. I'd say looks wise, face beauty is more important than body, and your social skills/charisma and more importantly your social status dominates everything.
- throw9away6 3y agoYou have to fish in the right pool for your skills and abilities. The generic advice is to just become a better product, which Is all fine and a good starting point but it’s also very hard and slow going. You are also probably never going to overcome genetics to a level where you can go anywhere and get any girl. You have to supplement by optimizing other factors. Change where you look based on your strengths, do things you dont really care for because there are opportunities to meet women. Go to gyms tailored to women instead of men. A bunch of little optimization that when coupled with 100s of attempts and 1000s of hours will yield positive results. That’s what hard work looks like, and what you have to do to overcome lack of natural talent.