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>In fact, online dating is the most common path to finding a partner. Yeah, and those people are on uppermost part of the attractiveness scale. If you're aver
by c7DJTLrn 3y ago
>In fact, online dating is the most common path to finding a partner.
Yeah, and those people are on uppermost part of the attractiveness scale.
If you're average or below, you're going to be spending a LOT of time and effort on an app just for a single date. Do you really want to be spending hours of your day rolling the dice to play a fundamentally rigged game? Even the algorithms of these apps have bias. If your profile isn't well received, it will simply be pushed to the bottom of the card stack, or never even be shown.
- gizmo 3y agoYou need every edge you can get. Great pictures, great bio, funny/interesting/engaging chat. Be in shape. Plan cool dates. Most guys who don't get anywhere with the apps have to 10x their effort. Maybe that feels unfair to you. But it's not unfair. Dating is extremely hard for people with disabilities or disfigurements. If that's you, I'm sorry. But if you're a regular guy in his 20s your dating pool is stupendously huge and the only thing holding you back is your attitude.
- red-iron-pine 3y agoI can think of two (2) married couples off of the top of my head who met through either Match.com or Tinder. And at least two more who met, dated for a while (1+ years), and split. I wouldn't describe any of of them as ugly, but most weren't on the "uppermost part of the attractiveness scale"