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From my experience I found most ‘perfect’ looking people when getting to know them better a bit boring, bland. Perhaps it’s this lack of struggle or soul search
by lacrimacida 3y ago
From my experience I found most ‘perfect’ looking people when getting to know them better a bit boring, bland. Perhaps it’s this lack of struggle or soul searching that made then slow down their growth in other dimensions. Many of these folks suffer most when getting older and their looks fade.
- denton-scratch 3y agoI prefer the company of "ordinary" people. I have always avoided beautiful women, even if they fancied me; I wouldn't want to become jealous. Also, I've found some (not all) of the beautiful women I've known to be be rather shallow, as if "beauty is enough". To be clear, the women I've loved weren't really ordinary; they were intelligent, eloquent, kind, and beautiful in their own way.
- nkjnlknlk 3y agoIs it that good looking people are boring or most people are boring and you do not have enough of a sample size?
- solarmist 3y agoBeing good looking takes a lot of work and time. Time that cannot be spent doing other things. Grooming, keeping up on trends, working out, shopping, etc. It's takes hours weekly at a minimum. So it's easy to let it take over your personality if it becomes a defining characteristic. Especially for women because often that is the societal expectation. If you're pretty that's enough.