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The idea that the person who gave birth to you is being used to pleasure random men for money is psychologically traumatizing because every child treasures and
by _8j50 3y ago
The idea that the person who gave birth to you is being used to pleasure random men for money is psychologically traumatizing because every child treasures and looks up to their parents (or wants to). Their life and identitiy is intertwined with yours and their decision or vicitimization is also by extension affecting you.
You want your parents to be valued and respected. You would think sex for money is valuing but it is or at least feels like devaluing. It is one thing for your parent to have sex because they want to and for the sake of it, it is another thing to do it because they have to which means they are unable or unwilling to provide anything else of value to pursue partners they are interested in, instead of the general public.
The idea that anyone, even neighbors and hobos could be paying to penetrate the person you treasure the most and is supposed to be role model and teach you how to live right is at the very least disturbing. Even porn stars work with other porn stars but prostitutes at best filter by appearances aside from money.
Children are protective of their parents and vice versa. Whether a child or parent, seeing them become a prostitute feels like something sacred to you is being desecrated.
If that doesn't make sense to you, I suggest taking off the ideological glasses.
- postmortembees 3y ago>If that doesn't make sense to you, I suggest taking off the ideological glasses. You might want to check and see who is wearing the ideological glasses. You are the one who has the hangup here. Sex is. People enjoy sex. People can enjoy sex with close intimate partners or flings. People can enjoy sex or perform it for money. Not all sex work is penetrative either. You've got a narrow and restrictive view of the world.
- _8j50 3y agoHuman psychology is not a world view. This is not a matter if opinion. You are just stuck on an extremist view where sex is cool in a ll context when it isn't.
- flangola7 3y agoYou're right, it's not a matter of opinion, and in this case you are the one with the wrong opinion.
- _8j50 3y ago99.9% of humanity is on my side on this. You're free to have your opinion just keep in mind it isn't valid just because you say it is. I told you how things are and you did not refute what I said, you just made ideological statements and mental gymnastics to help you hold on to your opinion. The world is not as black and white as you want it to be.
- postmortembees 3y ago> 99.9% of humanity is on my side on this. Citation very much needed. > I told you how things are You very much did not. You shared your opinion, just like you did with the 99.9% "statistic". Get over yourself.
- _8j50 3y agoIt was obviously a guesstimate not a statistic. It was my opinion but it is also correct, go outside and ask random people how they feel about this and find out for yourself.
- postmortembees 3y ago> It was my opinion but it is also correct You are clearly unable to have a discussion in any sort of good faith. You cannot just assert things are true and then say, "Well, they were just my opinion, but also they are axiomatically true." I'm done. You'll probably tell me that I'm being ideological or something, but I don't have the time to argue with someone who isn't able to engage in a productive dialog. (Either the "we have different opinions, and that's ok, let's talk through them and listen" or the "here's some factual discussion, with some sources that aren't anecdata.")