Do you find it strange to think we wouldn't consider it weird to have a parent who was a soldier or a boxer or a cop who had demolished someone's face on camera

Do you find it strange to think we wouldn't consider it weird to have a parent who was a soldier or a boxer or a cop who had demolished someone's face on camera or killed another human during a non-defensive war or put someone in a cage for selling a plant, but the idea that a parent would give another human one of life's greatest pleasures for money is disturbing?