Most of the diagnoses associated with the cluster of symptoms you mention are quite heritable, so (a) she'll probably be as OK as you are, (b) ask the grandpare

Most of the diagnoses associated with the cluster of symptoms you mention are quite heritable, so (a) she'll probably be as OK as you are, (b) ask the grandparents if any of this sounds familiar, and if so what coping strategies they discovered, and (c) it might be worth giving noise canceling headphones a go at work yourself...