I think I agree with you. In the end is just what I'm used to hear (I do hold the door for anybody, somebody did that for me in Canada and I really appreciated

I think I agree with you. In the end is just what I'm used to hear (I do hold the door for anybody, somebody did that for me in Canada and I really appreciated it), but maybe the wait to fight this perception is to just stop using it and do nice things for everybody. Thank you, really appreciate the exchange!