Every single time I tried using arch, I had nothing but problems with updates. I wasted a lot of time hunting down documentation to things that broke, like mail

Every single time I tried using arch, I had nothing but problems with updates. I wasted a lot of time hunting down documentation to things that broke, like mailing, logging, the DE, bluetooth, you name it. Changes that get taken care of by default in other distros. I had some very nasty surprises while using arch. My stable Ubuntu or Debian installs didn't even have a single glitch in the exact same timeframe.