>*No one in my office knows of my sexual past and what gets me hard* Yep - its nobody's business - it was just that it was not even in the zeitgeist until he p

>*No one in my office knows of my sexual past and what gets me hard* Yep - its nobody's business - it was just that it was not even in the zeitgeist until he printed those - but luckily for him, it was lit btwn me (IT head), HR and whomever else was on his team/mgmt struct... But I bet that guy suffered from cringe-thoughts-on-mistake for a few years to come. As we all do. (ever cringe toss and turn over a stupid comment you made 20+ years ago?) (No? many people dont, but some people do... I am one of the some people)