I have the same difficulty: I can't bargain with myself that way and, ultimately, I feel like I'm acting as both a parent and a child at the same time. I basic

I have the same difficulty: I can't bargain with myself that way and, ultimately, I feel like I'm acting as both a parent and a child at the same time. I basically won't get something done unless I actually want to, or if there is an element of external accountability, but sometimes I can encourage myself into it if it feels like unburdening myself.