I have seen more absolutist views about drinking on this and other websites in the last few months. I totally understand that there are many valid reasons for n

I have seen more absolutist views about drinking on this and other websites in the last few months. I totally understand that there are many valid reasons for not wanting to drink at all, but this short article resonates with me. As someone who drinks maybe 2-3 drinks a week (usually one night a week and then not at all the rest of the week). I get immense social benefit from it. It helps me act like a "normal human". The occasional happy hour with coworkers or friends has helped my mental health. Also, honestly taste is a big reason I do drink when I do. I love cocktails and there are many interesting flavors you just can't find without alcohol. Sure I could hang out with them without drinking, but honestly, the alcohol helps us unwind and let down our guards after work hours. We are mostly quiet people, but we have built stronger connections that survive beyond the happy happy hours, because of the happy hours. And not all of the group always drinks, no one pressures them to, they are welcome to join and we all love the growth of mocktails, it allows the non-drinkers to feel included and gives those of us who do drink an option to take a break. I realize there are many out there who cannot enjoy in moderation and the studies give them more reason to not imbibe. I support that, no one needs to drink and no one should feel uncomfortable for not drinking. I also know it isn't physically healthy for me--my stomach often regrets it the next morning (even after only a couple beers, wine and liquor are easier on it). Everything in moderation.