Obligatory: "Obviously, the first place men should look to help them define 'masculinity' is an article written by a woman in the Washington Post." More seriou

Obligatory: "Obviously, the first place men should look to help them define 'masculinity' is an article written by a woman in the Washington Post." More seriously... in my opinion, being a man is about taking command of yourself first and foremost. Measure yourself against the yardstick that you choose, as opposed to looking to others for validation. I'll also point out that this doesn't apply only to males. My wife and I have two daughters, and I honestly can't think of anything I'd do drastically different if they were boys.