> against the rules for one of your children to date the child of one of your subordinates [citation needed] Neither your children, nor your subordinate's chi

> against the rules for one of your children to date the child of one of your subordinates [citation needed] Neither your children, nor your subordinate's children are in the military, so the military's authority over either is very limited, almost entirely limited to what they can do on base. There's even a trope about a young troop unknowingly ending up dating his base commander's daughter, and only finding out when he shows up for dinner at her father's house. And nothing happens to them. There are rules about who can date who, but it's only for military members, and amounts to: officer can't date enlisted, and you can't date people in your chain of command.