There’s a difference of having to do and wanting to do hard things. Most people pass a class because they have to for their degree. Most people raise a child

There’s a difference of having to do and wanting to do hard things. Most people pass a class because they have to for their degree. Most people raise a child while being sleep deprived because they frankly have to. When people want to do something, they don’t need to prove to themselves that they can do hard things because difficulty hardly matters to one with their mind set on something. For example anyone who decides to run a marathon one day. Instead for the things you have to do, one could reframe the “have to” with a “get to”. Gratitude is empowering. Not everyone gets to go to college. Not everyone gets the opportunity of being a parent. Etc.