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Not only is the relevance to hacker news dubious at best. The article itself makes a statements with no supporting evidence not even bad evidence. The author is

Not only is the relevance to hacker news dubious at best. The article itself makes a statements with no supporting evidence not even bad evidence. The author is demonstrating the exact narcissistic and toxic traits of putting out sensationalism and just having an accepted without question due to the fact that saying "violence is pervasive" is shocking. Because the underlying premise is if you question someone you are committing violence by asking them to substantiate their claims. Even your repeated statements of, mass shootings, while not trying to downplay any shooting, are media hype. Because you can go and review the crime statistics data and see what has increased is the media presence not the actual criminal activity. By every conceivable measure the United States does not have a pervasive violence problem unless you include verbal disagreements. Because with the rise of narcissism it has become the norm to say you have committed violence if you choose to misgender someone, as one popular recent example. That's not violence that's just being an asshole.

rendx 3y ago
It is not an "article", but a talk announcement, which typically do not give additional "references". Since we do not know the content of the talk, you exercise outright rejection and not sincere curiosity, and your comments do not invite an honest and open conversation. You may disagree with their perspective, and you can doubt its contents, call it out as "dubious", and ask them to "substantiate their claims", but I don't see how this makes the description posted "narcisstic and toxic", in even the broadest definitions of the terms that I can think of. They do give multiple books as references, which do look like book from actual trauma therapists and violence researchers. In the old days, you would have been called a troll, and we would not even try and feed you.
- elmerfud 3y ago
  Now you see a resort to personal attacks. If you can't engage in debate on the topic this is exactly what you do. Your own narcissism is evidence in the fact that apparently having an opinion is evidently offensive to you? Instead I must kowtow and beg for counterpoints, instead of having an opinion, stating it emphatically and leaving it there for response. The simple fact of a public post and a public response invites a response on the issues. Instead you leverage personal attacks which means you have nothing to say on the issue. It's as if you have knowingly or unknowingly substantiated every point that I've made in my comments.

rendx 3y ago

It is not an "article", but a talk announcement, which typically do not give additional "references". Since we do not know the content of the talk, you exercise outright rejection and not sincere curiosity, and your comments do not invite an honest and open conversation. You may disagree with their perspective, and you can doubt its contents, call it out as "dubious", and ask them to "substantiate their claims", but I don't see how this makes the description posted "narcisstic and toxic", in even the broadest definitions of the terms that I can think of. They do give multiple books as references, which do look like book from actual trauma therapists and violence researchers. In the old days, you would have been called a troll, and we would not even try and feed you.

elmerfud 3y ago
Now you see a resort to personal attacks. If you can't engage in debate on the topic this is exactly what you do. Your own narcissism is evidence in the fact that apparently having an opinion is evidently offensive to you? Instead I must kowtow and beg for counterpoints, instead of having an opinion, stating it emphatically and leaving it there for response. The simple fact of a public post and a public response invites a response on the issues. Instead you leverage personal attacks which means you have nothing to say on the issue. It's as if you have knowingly or unknowingly substantiated every point that I've made in my comments.