The solution I’ve come up with is to budget for this overage So, some nonzero number of people will screw you over if you are kind and give them a break. Add i

The solution I’ve come up with is to budget for this overage So, some nonzero number of people will screw you over if you are kind and give them a break. Add in a 10% emotional buffer and don’t give away what you can’t lose, as you know that this is going to happen.