The only way it "doesn't seem to be that way" is if we determine that it's actually wrong that QM tells us that we can have entanglement between spatially separ

The only way it "doesn't seem to be that way" is if we determine that it's actually wrong that QM tells us that we can have entanglement between spatially separated objects. If QM is right about this, then we need quantum gravity. So either QM is wrong in some sense and/or we need to limit ourselves to a specific interpretation, or gravity must be quantum