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Lol, pick :'). I have to stop at the title because I don't even get to the part where I get to pick :').

• Jeff_Brown 3y ago
  Search does come first. Someone would be happy to have you, I'm almost sure. And if not, well, you know what to work on. I thought I was unworthy for a long time, and basically invested in myself until my 40s. Then when I started looking in earnest, I got married scary fast.
  • RedShift1 3y ago
    Where do you look? Inside my friend circle there's nobody (all married or in a relationship), Tinder is a bust (I don't even remember when my last match was). I used to attend some Linux clubs but even if they are available they are so defensive about a man coming over to chat that the best thing I can muster is saying how good the cola is... Nobody at workplace either...
    • FredPret 3y ago
      (Assuming you're a straight male) I'm happy that there are more women in computing than before, but I would bet money against even finding one, let alone a single one who is a match, at a Linux club. It's a numbers game, and you have to go where the numbers are. But you also shouldn't go to spots with lots of single women - like yoga or something - solely to pick one up. Dating with an aim to marry is not easy for any demographic, especially if you're starting from scratch, but you only have to hit the jackpot once
    • Jeff_Brown 3y ago
      I used Tinder in Colombia. (I'm from the US, but I live here now -- to which fact my wife surely deserves some credit.)