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Learn. To. Dance. I do not mean goofy grinding to bad Top 40 or the running man - learn a ballroom dance. It really does not matter what it is, swing, Latin, wa
by swalkergibson 15y ago
Learn. To. Dance. I do not mean goofy grinding to bad Top 40 or the running man - learn a ballroom dance. It really does not matter what it is, swing, Latin, waltz - just fucking do it.
A lot of women like to dance and a lot of men do not. Knowing how to dance is like having bulletproof patents, a killer product, two million paying customers, and a personal endorsement from the President of the United States of how bitchin your company is. Get over your fears, take a class with a bunch of other newbies, and GO OUT! There is nothing more exhilarating than asking a beautiful woman to dance and her saying yes. It is truly a remarkable feeling that most men will never experience.
It solves two problems. First, there is absolutely nothing worse than approaching someone out of the blue. It is super awkward, and unless you are Justin Bieber, never works. Two, physical proximity is a requirement on the dance floor. Attraction is enormously physical, and dancing is the best way to break that barrier without being a creeper.
Find a beginner Salsa lesson in your area and get moving...
EDIT: I forgot to mention one thing. Find another of your good male friends to learn with you. Women rarely go anywhere alone, and you need to be prepared to approach a group of people. Having another person there makes the first interaction a lot smoother.