two people grow to love one another together - it’s a simultaneous process. A sudden / unexpected confession implies that feelings are one-sided. The two immedi

two people grow to love one another together - it’s a simultaneous process. A sudden / unexpected confession implies that feelings are one-sided. The two immediate responses would be “but I don’t love you,” or “how could you love me, you don’t know really know me.” To enter a relationship with someone, you have to like what you’ve seen of them, enough so that you’re willing to work together to see what could be between you. Again, it takes two willing participants. If one of you falls for the other faster, that’s not necessarily a bad thing, but along the lines of those responses I gave as examples above, the expectation is that when one confesses the other is ready for it.