> In an attempt to start anew, I relinquished our house and savings to my spouse This is bizarre to me, but I haven't been through a divorce and can't pretend

> In an attempt to start anew, I relinquished our house and savings to my spouse This is bizarre to me, but I haven't been through a divorce and can't pretend to know if I might be tempted to do something similar in that situation. Regardless, have you asked your ex for assistance? I think they'd have to be pretty heartless not to help you out after taking everything from you