I think you should be careful about criticizing yourself too much (or comparing to others). You have ADHD, a real handicap. Statistically speaking you are proba

I think you should be careful about criticizing yourself too much (or comparing to others). You have ADHD, a real handicap. Statistically speaking you are probably doing amazingly well if you consider how much more likely people with ADHD are to become addicted to substances, how much more likely they are to get into car crashes, how much more likely they are to end up homeless or unemployed. And I'm pretty sure statistically speaking the majority of people with ADHD does not get a college degree and is less likely to do so. I'm not saying you should "victimize" yourself or something but it's just that nothing you mentioned surprised me when you said ADHD.