It's not a big problem - just pick a reasonable instance, which 4/5 instances are anyways. Yes, if you pick an instance like lemmygrad on Lemmy that's specifica

It's not a big problem - just pick a reasonable instance, which 4/5 instances are anyways. Yes, if you pick an instance like lemmygrad on Lemmy that's specifically built to be an echo chamber, the chances of being defederated are higher. But picking a popular instance or an instance made for access to the fediverse (like what social.lol does) won't put you at much risk of being left out.