There's a principle in philosophical interpretation that we can learn from here: the principle of charity[1]. The basic idea is simple: 1) Assume the other pe

There's a principle in philosophical interpretation that we can learn from here: the principle of charity[1]. The basic idea is simple: 1) Assume the other person is rational. 2) Give the other person's arguments their best possible interpretation. Wherever possible give them the benefit of the doubt. Only after you do that should you try to evaluate the person's argument. The best short version of this principle I've ever heard came from a good friend: "The principle of charity just says, 'Don't be an asshole.'" [1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principle_of_charity http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principle_of_charity