> maybe just relax a bit, take things slower I agree with what you are saying about energy levels but take issue with these suggestions. How does an inherently

> maybe just relax a bit, take things slower I agree with what you are saying about energy levels but take issue with these suggestions. How does an inherently anxious and energetic person "just relax" and "take things slowly"? I mean, the phrase "just relax" generates (for a younger version of me) a thought bubble that would read: I thought I was relaxed!! > talk less, go on fewer (or no) tangents What's worse, someone babbling about something they're excited about? Or sitting in awkward silence because they're mentally keeping score of who's saying more words in the conversation? Again, I am 100% with you on the excess energy levels making someone annoying. I am just looking for actionable, less generic suggestions. To bring it back to the start of your post: > I prefer my husband's company when he's tired How does your husband get tired enough to be tolerable?