Just in case you haven't thought of it--at least as far as photos/videos there are easy/straightforward generic options for copying them off without having to l

Just in case you haven't thought of it--at least as far as photos/videos there are easy/straightforward generic options for copying them off without having to look. You can install something like Dropbox or Nextcloud and set them up to sync the entire photo album. Just checking the rough counts on either end should get you a decent indicator that you've got everything. (It's possible something gets missed but, trying to not let the perfect be the enemy of the good, it would certainly be a much safer position over where you are today.) As much as anything, I'm just trying to give you a nudge. I can only imagine how much it would compound the heartbreak to lose all of that. My sympathies for your loss.