All of those will be worse off by hand-made “solutions”. Especially that you are not forced to use ORM for everything. Use it for like 90% of your generic db us

All of those will be worse off by hand-made “solutions”. Especially that you are not forced to use ORM for everything. Use it for like 90% of your generic db usage, and use its in-built escape hatches for the rest, like native queries or go straight to the db driver if needed.