Only alcoholics have lives revolving around alcohol and they're in the minority. You're simply missing out on a huge swath of adult socialization. I know m

Only alcoholics have lives revolving around alcohol and they're in the minority. You're simply missing out on a huge swath of adult socialization. I know many people who don't drink alcohol, but still go to pubs and bars to enjoy other types of drinks, food, and socialization. It't not at all uncommon. Also, pubs do not require any kind of special pants or shoes.