This is something I come back to frequently in my life. It's like that moment when something your parents told you over and over again as a child suddenly makes

This is something I come back to frequently in my life. It's like that moment when something your parents told you over and over again as a child suddenly makes sense. I think the distinction is process vs initiative. You can teach people processes easily, but only experience can generate the initiative that conjures the process in the moments it is useful or necessary. Experience is what integrates the process into the person.