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I'm still going to after-work parties from time to time, I just drink nonalcoholic stuff. The biggest difference in friend-making was when I graduated and star
by ajuc 3y ago
I'm still going to after-work parties from time to time, I just drink nonalcoholic stuff.
The biggest difference in friend-making was when I graduated and started to work, not when I stopped drinking 5 years later. Also I was never very social to begin with. So maybe what's normal for me is "not connecting" for you :)
- contrarian1234 3y agoYeah, I could see maybe life circumstances not bringing it out. I'm naturally quite shy and reserved and not particularly outgoing around new people. So I feel some drinks help in this regards as it set a nice social setting to open up. But for instance if you're mainly meeting friends-of-friends then I could see alcohol playing a smaller role Interesting to think about. Thanks for the perspective :)