Yup, that's how burnout works -- by tricking you into continually coming up with reasons to believe that it's all your fault. Fortunately, however -- once you

Yup, that's how burnout works -- by tricking you into continually coming up with reasons to believe that it's all your fault. Fortunately, however -- once you have enough observational data with these things (so as to be able to make a balanced assessment about them) -- it becomes perfectly reasonable to come to the conclusion that "It isn't me, it's them." Cause you know, sometimes it just is.