What to do about multiple parenting styles that are at odds with one another (sometimes even in the same household)? How about the baggage that parents are car

What to do about multiple parenting styles that are at odds with one another (sometimes even in the same household)? How about the baggage that parents are carrying that influence how they’re gonna parent, many of those suitcases inherited from their parents? That’s one thing for sure, but some parents aren’t even parenting for various reasons, not enough time, lack of responsibility or not being around for various reasons. If we could tackle all that we’d basically get a much better society but it’s a nearly impossible problem to solve in a practical way…