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> However with parenting we have nothing and the result it seems is we pay with a ton more resources downstream in the way of therapy, detention centers, jails
by prepend 3y ago
> However with parenting we have nothing and the result it seems is we pay with a ton more resources downstream in the way of therapy, detention centers, jails etc.
I think it’s a situation where we can’t stop people from having babies so we don’t even attempt to limit.
There have been attempts to prevent births in “undesirable” populations that people thought weren’t capable of properly raising kids. [0]
But unless we’re going to have a super controlled society with forced birth control and abortion, there’s not a qualification to give birth. And developing nations have really low birth rates so anything to further lower birth rates has some negative societal and economic impact.
That being said, there are many free programs available to parents but they have to reach out to find them. I live in a pretty backwards, relatively speaking, state and there were numerous state, county, charity, and religious programs to help with parenting coaching before and after birth.
It does seem like a good idea to add coaching into the maternal health programs to give more education and support to expecting and new parents.
[0] https://www.npr.org/sections/itsallpolitics/2015/08/14/432080520/fact-check-was-planned-parenthood-started-to-control-the-black-population https://www.npr.org/sections/itsallpolitics/2015/08/14/43208...
- mh- 3y ago> developing nations have really low birth rates Did you mean to write developed, perhaps? I'm under the impression - and a quick google confirms - that the more economically developed a country is, the lower its birth rate tends to be. (I'm sure I'm oversimplifying. I've not studied in this area, which is why I'm replying)
- prepend 3y agoThanks. You are right. I meant developed[0]. I like to think I typed “developing” and didn’t check my autocomplete. There does seem to be a function of the more money and education for women, the lower the birth rate. Some countries are increasing immigration to compensate. [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sovereign_states_and_dependencies_by_total_fertility_rate https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sovereign_states_and_d...