This is a huge problem, and I lack the faith that it will ever get fixed. People have talked about it for years, and the amount of investment and research is no

This is a huge problem, and I lack the faith that it will ever get fixed. People have talked about it for years, and the amount of investment and research is nonexistent compared to the talk about it. I have met many people in my life that virtue signaled using this issue. I opened to them assuming it was safe. They used any vulnerable moment to amplify my pain for their own enjoyment. It sounds insane, but this is a fundamental(could be instinctual) aspect of human societies. Look at prisons. Look at war. Look at how online spaces react to men vs women.