Yes, I had previously mentioned the idea that, if you want a woman to break up with you, you be vulnerable in front of her over something small but reasonable.

Yes, I had previously mentioned the idea that, if you want a woman to break up with you, you be vulnerable in front of her over something small but reasonable. A moment of weakness. The disdain and even revulsion makes them think it was their idea. Revulsion is the correct term for it; now trending is women endlessly discussing what gives them "the ick" when it comes to a prospective mate. A tear at anything other than your mother's funeral? You'll get dumped soon. It's like a dreadful little magic spell and one of the components you use up at each casting is your faith in what society at large tells you.