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They are complaining but didn’t participate in the planning and therefore surrendered all agency Only thing left is complain why they didn’t think of him when

• mattdeboard 3y ago
  > didn’t participate in the planning and therefore surrendered all agency > > Only thing left is complain why they didn’t think of him when he wasn’t around Which is a totally valid complaint man. That’s what the whole fuckin article is about. That’s what all this is about. A man is allowed to feel disappointed people didn’t think of him when he wasn’t around, and he’s allowed to express that disappointment out loud. You’re literally perpetuating the cycle by enforcing toxic ideas of masculinity, this idea that you either fix your own problems or shut the fuck up about them. It’s a self-defeating way to live. Edit: your comment is god-tier irony because “not being thought of when you’re not around” is like the core of a lot of men’s emotional wounds. As in, a child’s experience of emotional neglect is the caregiver not thinking of the child when they’re not around, so the fact you are holding up the idea of complaining about that for ridicule is so on-the-nose it is actually hurting my soul on your behalf.
• kashunstva 3y ago
  > They are complaining but didn’t participate in the planning and therefore surrendered all agency He noted only that the fathers were not recognized during the assembly. We know nothing about who was invited to participate in the planning.
• ineedasername 3y ago
  As stated in my other reply, there was no parent participation in the planning of this. It was a done by the preschool in its entirety. No parents, mothers, fathers, or other legal guardians had a part in planning things.