Accept that as a society we do not have some cosmic right to perfect security. Recognize that the price of freedom is that from time to time some of us get blow

Accept that as a society we do not have some cosmic right to perfect security. Recognize that the price of freedom is that from time to time some of us get blown up. Acknowledge that life owes us no guarantees and the best system is still going to look messy and wrong. How to do that? I have absolutely no idea.