I remember an anecdote by a guy that shared to his family how he was feeling depressed and exhausted, mostly work-related. It was a "deer in the headlights" ex

I remember an anecdote by a guy that shared to his family how he was feeling depressed and exhausted, mostly work-related. It was a "deer in the headlights" experience. His family indifferent if not annoyed by his revelations. He had nervously prepared for the moment but the message was plain and clear: you can't fail. I think it serves as an example of how cold and loveless men perceive this world to be. You need to deliver without fail for life. Fail and nobody cares or you're cast aside as trash. So if the messaging is that nobody loves you for you and you're judged by utility only, we shouldn't be surprised by men's growing issues.