I think you're wrong on both counts. The first example is closer to direct than passive. Passive-Aggressiveness would be saying yes, but intentionally doing a p

I think you're wrong on both counts. The first example is closer to direct than passive. Passive-Aggressiveness would be saying yes, but intentionally doing a poor job without communicating. His second example was letting someone borrow his car when he couldn't drive them. I can't drive you, but you can borrow my car. I will make sure to get you the keys. Doesn't seem assholish to me.