In my opinion this is a mind set problem. If you frame issues so it is an us-vs-them problem then perhaps the real issue is how you have framed the problem. I

In my opinion this is a mind set problem. If you frame issues so it is an us-vs-them problem then perhaps the real issue is how you have framed the problem. I worked in a car factory (a very long time ago) when the war between management and workers was at the height. They were enemies, to the extent that workers would silently watch while management teams directed repairs to the wrong place. Those factories, which operated out of that mind set are long gone. If this article applies to you, you might consider that the system in place to produce software is fundamentally broken.