You need to provide context around your role because; If you are an engineering manager than it is probably expected that you attend meetings most of your time

You need to provide context around your role because; If you are an engineering manager than it is probably expected that you attend meetings most of your time spend and you shouldn't be wired in to write code as is expected from an IC. If you are an IC, escalate to your manager. However, if those meetings are with your direct team to discuss product roadmap, PR reviews, solution design, sprint planning, epic grooming, etc, then your manager will probably tell you that you should attend those meetings.