This is very close to what I feel. While I sympathize with how socially inept he was, he did make those mistakes himself, lack of skill is not excuse. After al

This is very close to what I feel. While I sympathize with how socially inept he was, he did make those mistakes himself, lack of skill is not excuse. After all, there are many socially inept people who manage to live happily as they are; there are many more people who made mistake and learned from them. "The man of pity, must have his share of blame"