I'd rather say that on personal matters, it's best to be introspective as soon as you can before you start regretting the years passing by you. That was a big c

I'd rather say that on personal matters, it's best to be introspective as soon as you can before you start regretting the years passing by you. That was a big chunk of my 20s, living in a world of demands and obligations (very much like the post here describes.) I am still very indecisive but that's something I put up with. Being in relationships and marriage is honestly not a strict technique to follow. I leave the technique to my job, which I can turn off for the day.