> ... I have a few friends who left to their own devices would never make social plans and when I invite them to a BBQ they'll stand lamely to the side ... You

> ... I have a few friends who left to their own devices would never make social plans and when I invite them to a BBQ they'll stand lamely to the side ... You've had conversations with them about this? They admit to being happier? Do they want to engage more ... so when their foot / leg injuries heal they'll be able to walk comfortably to where the conservations are happening?